Reclaim Your Worth
Redefine Your Life
EMPOWERING LIVES IN
31 COUNTRIES GLOBALLY
CERTIFIED LIFE COACH
CERTIFIED NLP PRACTITONER
MARRIED FOR 25 YEARS
3 ADULT KIDS & 2 GRANDKIDS
Who Am I?
I’m Jamie Ryder - a Personal Transformation and Relationship Coach, husband of 26 years, father of three, and proud grandfather.
I help women heal from betrayal, rebuild self-trust, and rise into the confident, grounded, fulfilled women they were always meant to be.
But what I teach isn’t theory, it’s lived experience.
My Story: From Rebuilding to Rising
At 20, the mother of my daughter left. At 21, I was granted full custody and found myself raising a two-year-old alone.
Back then, I was a farrier and cowboy. Saturday nights went from rodeos to dinner dates with my little girl and early nights at home. It was a very different life, one that taught me resilience, responsibility, and love in its truest form.
At 25, I broke my back and lost everything. my business, my home, my hobbies.
So I started again. I re-educated, entered the corporate world, and built success from the ground up.
By 44, I’d reached the top, and lost it all again.
My biggest client betrayed me, and I went bankrupt.
Once again, I was forced to start over, not just financially, but emotionally and spiritually.
You could say I know a thing or two about rebuilding, self-worth, perspective, and life itself.
Those experiences taught me that strength isn’t about never falling. It’s about learning how to rise, over and over again, with wisdom instead of bitterness, with trust instead of fear.
My Philosophy
Most of the world tries to rebuild self-worth, but that misses the mark.
You don’t rebuild self-worth by focusing on it, just like you don’t rebuild motivation by chasing motivation.
You rebuild self-trust.
Because self-trust builds self-respect, and self-respect allows you to see your own value. When those align, self-worth stops being something you chase, it becomes who you are.
True healing isn’t about reliving the past. It’s about reframing it.
The trauma isn’t the event itself; it’s the story, guilt, and identity that formed because of it.
When you shift perspective, extract the lessons with gratitude, and release the shame, you stop carrying the pain, and start using the wisdom.
That’s where transformation begins.
Why My Approach Is Different
Most coaching focuses on mindset. Mine focuses on identity.
Because you don’t rise by changing how you think, you rise by changing who you believe you are.
The Phoenix approach works at the subconscious level, where beliefs, boundaries, and behaviours are formed. It combines deep emotional work with structure, accountability, and truth, turning insight into transformation.
My coaching also brings something rare: masculine energy that feels safe.
Many of the women I work with have never experienced strength that protects instead of controls, or leadership that listens instead of dictates.
When they do, they start to breathe again.
I don’t rescue women. I remind them of their power.
And I walk beside them until they see it for themselves.
The Sacred Balance of Masculine and Feminine
True healing happens when masculine and feminine energy work together.
The masculine provides direction, structure, and safety.
The feminine brings intuition, compassion, and flow.
When both rise in balance, growth becomes natural, not forced.
My work embodies that balance: strength that protects, not dominates, and compassion that empowers, not enables.
It’s the dynamic that allows women to finally feel safe enough to stop surviving and start becoming.
Masculine and feminine energy were never meant to compete.
They were designed to complement, complete, and co-create.
That balance, safety meeting softness, truth meeting grace, is the heartbeat of every transformation I guide.
What I Believe
Leadership is service, not control.
You don’t rebuild self-worth by chasing it, you rebuild self-trust.
Healing is about progress, not perfection.
The past can inform you, but it doesn’t define you.
You are not broken. You are becoming.
Beyond the Work
I’ve been happily married for over 26 years, and I’m the father of two daughters, a son, and a grandfather to two beautiful grandchildren.
I train hard, live simply, and lead with integrity, at home and in business.
The life I’ve built, strong marriage, family connection, and purpose-driven work, is proof that this philosophy works.
It’s not theory. It’s lived truth.
If You’re Ready to Begin
Whether you’re healing from betrayal, rediscovering your identity, or ready to rise again, I’ll guide you to rebuild from the inside out, one honest, powerful step at a time.
You don’t need to go back to who you were.
You’re here to become who you were always meant to be.
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Australian based, coaching clients worldwide.
